I'm just an average guy looking for an average girl! I live by my own rules and on my own terms! As a healer I have strong morals and a sense of compassion and understanding of others!



Following the passing of my mum in January, life entered a new phase, that of being left alone! For those of you who have been where I find myself, you will appreciate what a desolate place in life grief can be! For those who have not, I do not envy you what is to come!



Get know me by all means, anything not mentioned here don't be afraid to ask... I am an easy going, approachable person and place a lot of emphasis on loyalty, honesty, trust, love and devotion! These are as you will be aware, traits which seem all to lacking among modern society. I am not perfect, but I am perhaps, just like you, a normal human being!



For the past two years I was a full time carer, an exhausting vocation! With Mum safe in spirit, its time to begin my new life, just as she is beginning hers! I am one of those rare people who knows and practices the meaning of love, compassion and having the ability to care! I would like to enjoy having fun, weekends by the sea or just losing myself far from the madding crowd. I am a multi talented and multi skilled individual, thus the screen name..



I pride myself on being an individual who treats others with the kindness he enjoys receiving. Never having been one who runs with the crowd or bureaucracy I am not afraid to explore, purely for the sake of fun and adventure. If you are not the kind of woman who is prepared to get soaking wet to help fix the roof because its leaking and the rain is pouring in, then we just couldn't work together on things that mattered. I appreciate a woman who takes care of herself but not at the sacrifice of all things good.



I keep fairly fit but am not fanatical, I do however enjoy swimming and walks in the nearby countryside, or on the beach if/when I get a chance. I have no problem with affection or expressing emotions and love doing couple things. I miss being in love!



Life and time are very precious! So I have no intent of wasting either, on or with people who toy with the emotions of others! I seek a life partner with whom to enjoy and grow, as long as my life lasts! Sharing lots of love and copious amounts of laughter! Its true I suppose without attraction nothing happens, however, how can you tell if there is chemistry/attraction or not unless you physically meet?



To many make big judgements on so little information and a photo. I am comfortable in my own skin and do not need another's approval, to be the very special person, I was raised to be! I have lived long enough to be fully aware of my imperfections, and accept others, with theirs! I have many life skills and much life experience, which I use to enrich the lives of others. If you are to proud or independent to share life and [u] love unconditionally [/u], then I would be wasted on you!



I'm not seeking someone who's been there and done that, but more, someone who wants to go there and would love to do that! I'm not talking smutty either! Someone for whom the adventures and joys of life are not yet over, or distant memories. Life is always...TODAY, yesterday is gone and tomorrow never comes, so I live for and in the moment and enjoy it, one day at a time, like the one I cared for who is gone before and now waiting for me! You don't realise how short life is, until you are staring DEATH in the face with someone who's life you love, before your own! !

Ram

Gespierd

5' 6 (1.68 m)

Hazelnootkleurig

Blank

Nooit getrouwd

Nee

Niet Zeker

Kont

Iets Anders

Donkerbruinharig

Iets Anders

Ja

Een universiteit

Gepensioneerd

Recht

Healer

Alleen

Is het lekker rustig

Nee

Ja - Een Of Twee

Stil

Vriendelijk, Opmerkzaam

Knutselen, Kamperen, Auto's, Nachtclubs / Bars, Computers, Koken, Dansen, Eten, Fitness, Internet, Tuinieren, Nieuwe Dingen Leren, Films, Muziek, Fotografie, Religie / Spiritualiteit, Reizen, Vrijwilligerswerk

Extreme sporten, Met Vrienden zijn, Naar een concert gaan, Feesten, Relaxen, Ik probeer graag nieuwe dingen

Just a coffee somewhere pleasant enough to enjoy as well as the company hopefully! Hopefully it almost becomes a case that the place doesn't matter once you become immersed in the moment!

Making a million, A long term relationship, Sky diving, drag racing, setting a speed record at salt lake! Flying a plane, Surfing, Rock climbing,

Vriendelijk, Iemand die ze willen zijn, Cool

Iets Anders

Een keer per week

To live off the grid and totally removed from the matrix! I was born free and signed into slavery to the crown as were we all! I want my life and identity back and to finally be able to say I am free!

Vriendelijk

Ik hou niet van tv

Actie, Science Fiction, Komedie, Thriller

Ambient, Blues, Klassiek, Dance, Metal, Rock, Soul

Gezondheid, Huis & Tuin, Natuur, Filosofie, Wetenschappelijk

Anything I can enjoy and that covers a myriad of things, from great company, to partying, to a good dance or bowling, a walk or out for a blast on the Bike by no means being last on my list!

Empathie, Flirterig, Goed Uiterlijk, Goeie Vaardigheden, Humor, Gevoeligheid, Spontaniteit, Bedachtzaamheid, Gevatheid

I look for a sense of rapport, chemistry can exist between the most unlikely of matches! All to often what you wish for simply won't do you any good! Far better to find what suits you and that can be far removed. Who wants a relationship in which you are always competing to be number one? What is ordained to be will be whether you like it or not! So I just go with the flow and see what happens!

Vriend, Date, Intimiteit, Vastigheid