Leigh

It’s quite simple really… I am an old school mentality type of chic with a modern twist. I work at the VA Hosp. I am a kind-hearted and loving woman but don't take any shit either. Balance is key. I enjoy doing all kinds of things. It would take too long to list. I speak Vietnamese and understand languages oftentimes even when I shouldn't ( strange, I know). I won't lie, play games, cheat, etc. I am respectful and need the same. I only ask for what I am willing to give. If you're good to me then I'm great to you. I have only dated one person in 15 yrs. The reason is that I decided after my daughter was murdered to heal and work on myself. I didn't want to be that female that runs to a man or a relationship to have them “ fix” her. It just took longer than anticipated and life. Work..family and repeat. You get the idea, right? Yes, I know that's probably TMI but the way I see it is I gotta be me. Especially if I'm gonna find my best friend. See I'm not fake in life so why should I sugarcoat things here? I am who I am. Isn't that the point of this? See if we are compatible. Moving on - I love animals, nature, fishing, and learning new things no matter what it is. My recent interests are woodworking, building stuff ( a tiny home village would be cool) and even working on my car or repairing things at home. I dress up with my heels or boots but enjoy my jeans and crop top. I love my biker trash hott gear as well. I was on my first bike (Dad) when I was 2. Wind therapy is the absolute best .
Look I am not perfect but I am all I just said I am and then some. Those qualities I listed are things that I love about myself and would love to find the same in another. It isn't difficult to be real. For whatever reason it seems to be for a lot but I don't get it. Maybe it is bc technology makes it so ppl give up when things get challenging. All these options…swipe left…swipe right. It’s unfortunate. The grass is always greener on the other side. No one and nothing is ever going to be perfect . That’s ok! It’s the hard work and commitment that makes it all worth wild. I’m not afraid to get my hands dirty. If I love you then I love you with all of me. I do not share myself with just anyone ( once in 15 yrs) wasn’t easy. Especially when you are a passionate person, which I am. If you have gotten this far I’m impressed. I want to build a life with someone. Enjoy things together. Look at the stars, listen to the rain, sit on a sandy beach at night listening to the waves crash,talk n make love. Look for seashells. Go camping, travel to places we always wanted to see. I’d love to get off of this dating site and never be on one again. If any of what I’ve said resonates with you then let me know it. If not that’s ok too. Regardless I wish all of you the very best of luck on your journey.
Peace, Love, & Light

Virgo

Average

5' 4 (1.63 m)

Caucasian