I’m D

English

Well.. Learned a lot from this past relationship, unfortunately, I didn't realize what I had until it was too late. Lessons learned:

1) Prioritization is a must. If someone means something to you, make sure that they are prioritized accordingly. If something else is looming. let your person know, don't hide it, they will understand, and if you are as important to them, they will help you. (and will let you know)

2)Pay attention. Things will change and you need to rise to the occasion or fall off to the side

3)Treat your lady like the queen she is. You may only get one shot at this...

4)Guidelines at the beginning of the relationship will evolve, again, pay attention.

5) Most important: Communicate. If you feel something, talk about it. Don't wait to discuss your feelings

Note: Being out of the game for 17 years wow things have changed... first and foremost folks would rather text than talk.... Still getting used to that. Also experienced my first break up via text.... yeah... that is empty and ridiculous. Makes a breakup via phone seem merciful.

I used to send witty and eloquent messages, but found that if you write anything more than "Hi!" you don't get a response. If you ask more than one question in a reply, then you get blocked. I'll tell you what, Take a chance and respond(or hell, even reach out) and I promise that you'll have, at the very least, an amazing conversation and then lets see where it goes.

A little about me:
- I’m black and Korean

-I work in software - recovering homebody. I am doing more and more out in the world. I try to do something new at least once a week, and I am amazed every day at the new things out there to experience. Recently I've been doing different things to get out of my comfort zone (or expand it). Been to a few concerts at chateau st Michelle, Seen a friend DJ at a few clubs, Went to a cider fest, Lots of stuff out there to do, and it's time to get out there and do it.

-I know alot of folks, but true friends... I have a select few, and if I consider you a friend, we are "ride or die". At 2AM, across the world, it doesn't matter.. if you need me, I'll be there.

-Hobbies, well I'm sorta a mixed bag. I ride Motorcycles as much as I can, on asphalt and on dirt. Avid wake surfer and wakeboarder. I also used to do alot off-road with my jeep, mainly rock crawling. Currently I'm training to get back into shape for Motocross.

-I LOVE to sing. It may take a few to warm enough to do it in front of you, but when I do, I'll serenade you every night (outside and all 🙂 )

-Intelligence is the most appealing thing on the planet (cause apparently you can’t say s e x i e s t)

-I'm still pretty spontaneous..some folks don’t like that (what??????), but working on planning a bit more. Let me know what you think

-D

Leo

Stocky

5' 10 (1.78 m)

Brown

African American, Asian

Widowed

Yes - Not At Home

Not Sure

Smile

Other, Visible Tattoo

Black

Cat

Yes

Some Romance

Not yet

Its my life

No

Plain Clothes

Any curvy Road

Haven't been to any events.

Some College

Full-time

Computers / Electronic

Tech Leader

More Than $150,000USD

With Pet(s)

All Is Calm

No

Yes - One Or Two

Jock

Reserved, Shy, Friendly, Comedic

Sports, Learning, Movies, Cars, Computers

Extreme Sports, Going To A Concert

A nice discussion, getting to know the individual. Figuring out if we are a good match. Then Jumping on my/our Bikes or my bike and hitting a solitary road.

Hang Gliding

Friendly, Goofy

Christian

On Holidays

To make a difference. What I mean by that is, I want to make someones life better for knowing me, either by teaching them something, or being able to help in one way or another.

Clever, Friendly, Goofy

Documentaries

Action, Science Fiction

Rap, Rock, Metal, Electronic, Pop, Classical, Blues, Jazz, Dance, Soul, Gospel, Punk

Computers, Fantasy, Philosophy, Science Fiction

Riding, Playing or Coaching Football. MX

Wit, Spontaneity, Sensitivity, Humor, Intelligence

Looking for someone to ride with, literally and metaphorically.

Doesnt Matter