I like who I am and I surround myself with friends that are comfortable with who they are. My friends tend to be an extension of the person I try to be, and each of them have traits that I admire. I am drawn to men who show a strong relationship with their children and can deal with their ex for the good of their children. Believe me, I've been in the relationship where the poison spreads from the past to ruin any chance of a future. I am friends with all but a couple of my ex's (husband or boyfriend).I don't want to jump right into something serious, but I won't run screaming from a relationship if things are going well. I want to be in an adult relationship with a man that is as giving as I am. I'm an open book, and although I don't always come out of a situation smelling like roses, I won't lie about my past. The past and my mistakes make me who I am, and I am thankful for them.I love life and laughter. I take care of myself and look for that trait in my partner. I don't think it makes me shallow, it is a good indicator of how someone feels about their life.

I love to ride my motorcycle and go camping, fishing and hiking. I have three children who can drive me crazy or make me laugh hysterically. They are wonderful and beautiful, my greatest gifts from God.

If you want to know more, just ask me.

Jousimies