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I am a young 45 year old. Most people I meet think I am in my 30s. Looking for someone that is open minded, has a sarcastic sense of humor, and enjoys life as much as I do.

I've been told I am a cool geek. (I think that's a good thing) I like to goof around and often laugh until it hurts. I love riding my bike, wind in my hair, sun on my face! Drive out somewhere quiet and have a picnic, love it!

After several relationships this is what I know;

I go with the flow in most situations and I'm not afraid to change plans if things are not working out as desired. I know it is important to communicate and listen well to your partner. I wear my feelings on my sleeve and I feel so much better after talking. It also strengthens the relationship. I know I like snuggling next to the person I love and kissing often. I know the importance of a strong friendship. All relationships have ups and downs, it is a strong friendship that will get you through the downs. I know the value of asking for help from my partner. Friendship means sometimes you lean on each other.

I know the value of humor. Deep laughter heals, especially laughing at myself. I know it is easier to forgive my partner than hold a grudge. My stomach gets tight, my shoulders begin to get stiff and I don't sleep well. I know I am in touch with my emotions and I don't mind crying in front of my partner and letting her see my vulnerable side. It doesn't make me less of a man. I know I am an emotional lover not just physical. The stronger our relationship the better our intimacy will be.

I know the importance of a stable job, beautiful home, and enough financial security to do the things we want. I know I will support my significant other through highs and lows; from hospital visits to celebrations. I will be there until the end. I know I want to share my life with the person I love. I know the importance of doing things together; weekly date night, cooking at home, and weekends away when possible. I know I love doing things for my partner, little things like helping clean, helping wrap Christmas presents or putting up a Christmas tree.

I know my partner and I need our own space. We each need time to do things by ourselves or with friends. We don't have to be with each other all the time. I know I am not a jealous person and I respect my partners friends and enjoy time when we all hang out together.

I know how important it is to be with someone that gets along with your kids. Not all the time necessarily, but as much as possible. I know the importance of sharing and working together as a couple, when blending two families together. I know I like family vacations especially to Disney World. :)

Finally, I know I love being in a relationship much more than I like looking for one.


What have you learned from your past relationships and what do you know?

Respectfully,

Bart

Libra

Athletic

5' 6 (1.68 m)

Brown

Caucasian

Widowed

Yes - At Home

No

Butt

Secret Piercings, Strategically Placed Tattoo, Visible Tattoo

Dark Brown

Cat, Dog

Yes

Some College

Full-time

Administrative / Management

Share this Later

$75,000USD To $99,999USD

With Kid(s)

Friends Come Over Occasionally

No

Yes - One Or Two

Class Clown

Comedic, Dark, Flirtatious, Friendly, Observant

Camping, Computers, Dancing, Dining, Exercising, Family, Games, Learning, Movies, Music, Photography, Playing Cards, Reading, Religion / Spirituality, Sports, Travel

Extreme Sports, Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum, Relaxing, The Movies, Trying New Things

Meeting somewhere casual. Have a drink, maybe something to eat, and get to know each other.

Going on a cruise.

Friendly, Cool, Obscure, Goofy

Spiritual But Not Religious

Once A Month

I Don't Like Politics

Will Complete Later

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Obscure

Cartoons, Situation Comedies, Instructional, Movies

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Family, Animation, Horror, Thriller

Ambient, Blues, Dance, Electronic, Industrial, Jazz, Metal, Pop, Punk, Rock, Soul

Business, Classic, Computers, Erotica, Fantasy, Fiction, Instructional, Philosophy, Science, Science Fiction, Technical

It varies based upon the situation. In general, riding my bike and sharing time with someone special.

Boldness, Empathy, Good Looks, Great Skills, Humor, Intelligence, Power, Spontaneity, Wit

Ideally, an intelligent woman with a strong personality. You are not easily intimidated. You understand the power and energy two people can create and are not afraid to push our limits.

You value honesty, respect, trust, safety, and communication above all else.

Date, Intimate, Committed, Marriage